Question: Dear Doctor,

I am 27 year old married girl from cochin XXXXXXX Myself and husband working in IT industry in cochin.We got Married in 2013 and we have a happy family life. I have a good friend circle in office. So usually me and my friends ( girls only ) discuss about family/ sexual life, share sexual tips and give sexual tips to our girl friends who are going to enter into a married life.

We both have don't have any health issues till now and we are having a good sexual life. Usually he will use condoms or we are following the safe days to do the intercourse. On safe days I will sit on his top and control the movement, he will ejaculate inside me. Other days he will use condoms.

Some of my colleagues shared their fantasies that their partners will not use condoms and they are following withdrawal method and shared some good positions too.

We tried that in the following manner. We used missionary postion with out using condom and finally he ejaculate in my thighs or belly. We tried rear entry position ( doggy ) and he will ejaculate on my buttocks. We both feel good pleasure in these. But here the problem starts, I feel itching on belly or buttocks, where he ejaculated. But if it is inside vagina, I dont feel any problem. I have discussed this with my friends, but they don't have much idea on this, so they suggested about this website.

What would be the reason for this itching issue, could you please advise ?

Regards
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Dear Doctor,

Thanks for the reply.

I am not seeing any rashes over the skin, the itching will last only for 1 day. Usually I will wash with soap and water immediately after ejaculation. I don't like the sticky nature of semen.Anyway as you said, we will try to ejaculate on to a cloth.

If I am allergic to seminal fluid, does it stop me to become a mother ?

I usually gave him the oral sex ( blowjob ), Do we need to stop that.I don't have any issues while giving blowjob to him.

Could you please suggest any pleasure giving positions or techniques helpful for me and him ?

If I sit on top during intercourse, does it cause any harm to his penis ?

Regards
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Dear Doctor,

Thanks for the reply.

As you said it might be a skin reaction. I have no itching problem when his ejaculated semen falls into my hand. Only in belly and buttocks I have the issue.

Do me or he need to take any medicine for this ? As my hubby really loves to do the doggy pose on me.He says as I am a bit fatty it is easy for him to the doggy pose.

I have almost 65 kg weight, that is why I asked about the top position sex.Usually the penis insertion into vagina is slow, but sometimes there would be lack of lubrication on me. We don't use any artificial jelly's as we both are not intrested on that.

Could you please suggest some better natural methods to get lubrication on me ?

Another issue we are facing is, while sitting on top, I am controlling the up and down movement, but if it is in a good pleasure I couldn't stop the up and down movement when he is about to ejaculate. He will say he is going to ejaculate, but i am not able to stop the movement. So he will ejaculate inside me.Once ejaculate he will lose he erection and sometimes he has pain if i am still moving up and down.

How can I achieve a sudden stop to movement ?

Expecting good advices from you, since it would be helpful for my friend's circle too.


Regards
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Dear Doctor,

Thank you for the query clarifications. Feels like a friend giving advices.

Yesterday we have tried the ejaculation on to cloth, it went fine .

It was a new knowledge that semen can cause stains on the clothes.But it was ok.

I have some more queries, hope you are ok with that.

Is there any harm to lick or suck the clitoris? because sometimes we use this method if there is a lack of lubrication.

Does intercourse on doggy pose will increase the buttocks size, any way we are doing vaginal sex only.

How can we make maximum size for penis on its erecetion, what all support required from my side for this ?

Regards
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