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Am I Sick If I'm Not Interested In Having Sex Or Meeting Up With Any People ?
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i am a 25y/o female. i think i'm fine but my mom didn't think so. i don't think i can fall in love. i've date before but never emotionally like any of the guy. and i don't feel sad when i or they leave me. i never date the same guy. not even if they crying. all my relationship base on trust and once they did something that break the trust there's no poin for me to stay with the guy i can't trust. i date these guy not because i love them. i date them because they are nice and ask me to try it with them (be couple). i've never cheat or double date (two timing) with any guy. i don't think i love guy but, i don't love girl too. i think i can do well without guy (as partner) in my life. i never hate guy. i have lots of male friends. i love being alone. i've good job (very serious about my work) and own house and own car and yes i live alone. i would like to add that i never have sex. i think i am not intrested to have it (sex) with anyone. i've kissed 3-4 times before but it was one of my ex force me to. am i sick? my mom start asking things and want me to see doc and i try to tell her that i'm fine. i see lots of people for works and i'm okay for that. at work i don't talk about my prvt life and when i'm home i don't talk about things at work. i've never invite anyone to my house not even my bf. when i'm not working, else then my parents i really don't like meeting people.
i am a 25y/o female. i think i'm fine but my mom didn't think so. i don't think i can fall in love. i've date before but never emotionally like any of the guy. and i don't feel sad when i or they leave me. i never date the same guy. not even if they crying. all my relationship base on trust and once they did something that break the trust there's no poin for me to stay with the guy i can't trust. i date these guy not because i love them. i date them because they are nice and ask me to try it with them (be couple). i've never cheat or double date (two timing) with any guy. i don't think i love guy but, i don't love girl too. i think i can do well without guy (as partner) in my life. i never hate guy. i have lots of male friends. i love being alone. i've good job (very serious about my work) and own house and own car and yes i live alone. i would like to add that i never have sex. i think i am not intrested to have it (sex) with anyone. i've kissed 3-4 times before but it was one of my ex force me to. am i sick? my mom start asking things and want me to see doc and i try to tell her that i'm fine. i see lots of people for works and i'm okay for that. at work i don't talk about my prvt life and when i'm home i don't talk about things at work. i've never invite anyone to my house not even my bf. when i'm not working, else then my parents i really don't like meeting people.
Fri, 10 Jan 2014
Hi there,
Thanks for your query.
Having gone through your details, I feel that you are a very mature and highly sensitive lady, who is perfectly right in believing that Trust is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship.
Further, you are primarily an introvert by nature, who is comfortable being alone.
However, a healthy relationship also demands mutual adjustments and compromises. It will be difficult to find someone who meets all your requirements, without expecting some adjustments from your side too. Think about it.
Lastly, lack of libido may be due to either hormonal problems, some bitter/traumatic experiences in the past or, difficult childhood, feeling of guilt, lack of self-confidence or underlying depression.
I would therefore advise you to consult a Psychologist and confide EVERYTHING with him/her. The doctor will subject you through a few sessions to pinpoint the reason behind your problem.
If you find my response helpful and informative, do not forget an “excellent” (5-star rating) to my answer, to ENCOURAGE ALL doctors- engaged in social service- to render sound advice to the FREE queries.
Take care
Dr. Rakesh Karanwal
Thanks for your query.
Having gone through your details, I feel that you are a very mature and highly sensitive lady, who is perfectly right in believing that Trust is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship.
Further, you are primarily an introvert by nature, who is comfortable being alone.
However, a healthy relationship also demands mutual adjustments and compromises. It will be difficult to find someone who meets all your requirements, without expecting some adjustments from your side too. Think about it.
Lastly, lack of libido may be due to either hormonal problems, some bitter/traumatic experiences in the past or, difficult childhood, feeling of guilt, lack of self-confidence or underlying depression.
I would therefore advise you to consult a Psychologist and confide EVERYTHING with him/her. The doctor will subject you through a few sessions to pinpoint the reason behind your problem.
If you find my response helpful and informative, do not forget an “excellent” (5-star rating) to my answer, to ENCOURAGE ALL doctors- engaged in social service- to render sound advice to the FREE queries.
Take care
Dr. Rakesh Karanwal
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