Baby Born With Severe Respiratory Problem. In NICU. Now 2 Years. Cannot Talk Properly Or Hear. What To Do?

I am willing to inform you, I am a resident of Siliguri, West Bengal, and 1500 km apart from Delhi. At 30th January 2011 my wife has born our 1st & only child at Siliguri’s nursing home. During pregnancy period all report & local doctor said that all normal of our baby & of my wife. But the time of birth our baby born with severe respiratory problem & doctor said the baby born with birth anesthesia. Her 1st cry after 8 minutes of her birth. Then baby admitted at NICU of that nursing home, at that time there is another problem of my wife haven’t any breast milk & the baby can’t absorb any packed milk, she have the problem of severe diarrhea. Then after eight days treatment at NICU she released from nursing home. In this time she eats packed milk. But after 21 days again the baby effected with severe diarrhea & dehydration. Again she admitted at NICU & after 7 days of treatment she release from nursing home. From there doctor said the baby may be delay of every occurrence. Our baby’s neck stiffed at 7 month, baby can seat at 12 months age. She starts crawling at 20 months age. Now she aged 2yrs 5 months, but till now she can’t walk alone or stand alone, she can walk & stand by pick some other fixed object & she can’t talk till now. According to our observation she can hear very faint sound & she say yehaa, yayee , eygoo & lot of woooo type of sound but can’t say anything meaningful. There also another problem she crying so much to face any unknown person & at any unknown place to her. What can I do now ? Please send me a mail.