Good evening Dr.., My question is this: I have not been sexually active for 5 years, my husband had cancer, so I took care of him and we never resumed sexual intimacy. My husband passed since then. I just started dating one individual (was married for 33 years) Im 51 years old. Anyway I decided to have start a sexual relationship with him, 2 months ago. I never been with anyone other than my husband. However, he did have an affair for 7 years. So lately the llast two times that I have made love with this person, my vagina bleeds .. sore dark brown blood this time. Yes, he does hit my cervix. We sometimes get a little vigorous but, nothing out of the normal. I figured its just that Im still getting used to having sex again. In the 5 years I never had anything inside of me.... literally. I know this is probably more than anyone bargained for this evening. Worried.... Renae,,,,,,,,