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Does Bedwetting After Masturbation Or During Fertile Days Mean I’ve Lost My Virginity?
Right from when I was still a baby down till when I was 28 I pee on the bed but while I grow up in my early 20 I notice that I pee on bed only after musturbating or during my fertile days but have never had sex before dose that mean that I might have lost my virginity if not what could be the cause?
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Hello,
Virginity is only lost through penetrative sexual intercourse that breaks the hymen. Bedwetting after masturbation or during fertile days does not mean you have lost your virginity. It is indicative that you are suffering from bladder sensitivity, pelvic floor relaxation, and it can be due to hormonal changes during your cycle.
Do pelvic floor strengthening exercises, Kegel exercises. Tighten the muscles used to stop urine mid-flow, hold for 5 seconds, relax for 5 seconds. It will be helpful to reduce bedwetting. Repeat 10–15 times, 2–3 times daily. It will reduce leakage after masturbation or hormonal changes. Go to toilet before sleep.
Do not drink too much water after 1pm. Avoid caffeine or alcohol. Maintain a healthy weight. Obesity or being overweight will put extra pressure on the bladder and causes bedwetting. Include fiber in your diet so that you are not constipated. Constipation triggers bedwetting. Pelvic physiotherapy is helpful. Get connected to a physiotherapist.
If it continues, get clinically examined by a urologist/gynecologist to check for urinary tract infections, hormonal imbalance, bladder sensitivity or rare conditions. Do not hesitate to get connected with me anytime.
Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr Nupur K., General & Family Physician
Virginity is only lost through penetrative sexual intercourse that breaks the hymen. Bedwetting after masturbation or during fertile days does not mean you have lost your virginity. It is indicative that you are suffering from bladder sensitivity, pelvic floor relaxation, and it can be due to hormonal changes during your cycle.
Do pelvic floor strengthening exercises, Kegel exercises. Tighten the muscles used to stop urine mid-flow, hold for 5 seconds, relax for 5 seconds. It will be helpful to reduce bedwetting. Repeat 10–15 times, 2–3 times daily. It will reduce leakage after masturbation or hormonal changes. Go to toilet before sleep.
Do not drink too much water after 1pm. Avoid caffeine or alcohol. Maintain a healthy weight. Obesity or being overweight will put extra pressure on the bladder and causes bedwetting. Include fiber in your diet so that you are not constipated. Constipation triggers bedwetting. Pelvic physiotherapy is helpful. Get connected to a physiotherapist.
If it continues, get clinically examined by a urologist/gynecologist to check for urinary tract infections, hormonal imbalance, bladder sensitivity or rare conditions. Do not hesitate to get connected with me anytime.
Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr Nupur K., General & Family Physician
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