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Does Lack Of Bleeding During Sex For The First Time Determine Virginity?

My wife told me her ex tried to have sex with her but she didn t know level of penetration since she s inexeperienced after deep romance but he stood up immediately so she wasn t sure maybe he tore her hymen or not because there was no pain or blood about 6 years ago...But when i tried to penetrate her last month, i felt resistance twice and i lost erection immediately like hitting a wall though before i forced it in the third time...i quickily rushed to ejaculate but to my surprise no blood came out even though she squeezed her face when i was trying to force it in but i really didnt think there was much pain..i know she gets wet easily but i couldnt say mayb she was a virgin or not..Because some people told me if a lady have sex or have her hymen tored about 10 years before without sex and another man trying to have sex with her it will be tight like a virgin..
Wed, 28 Jan 2015
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Hello sir and welcome.

First of all, please do not give into all the myths and beliefs that are out there. Do not let this come in between your relationship with your wife. In older times, this was considered an accurate way, but believe me this is very inaccurate.

A woman can tear her hymen through simple techniques like long jump, cycling, horse back riding, etc. So the hymen can easily tear.

As for the process and difficulty you had in penetrating your wife, there could be a problem here, possibly even vaginismus. Please do consult a doctor.

Hope this helps.

Best wishes.
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Does Lack Of Bleeding During Sex For The First Time Determine Virginity?

Hello sir and welcome. First of all, please do not give into all the myths and beliefs that are out there. Do not let this come in between your relationship with your wife. In older times, this was considered an accurate way, but believe me this is very inaccurate. A woman can tear her hymen through simple techniques like long jump, cycling, horse back riding, etc. So the hymen can easily tear. As for the process and difficulty you had in penetrating your wife, there could be a problem here, possibly even vaginismus. Please do consult a doctor. Hope this helps. Best wishes.