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Habit Of Masturbating. Anxiety And Depression. Will Masturbating Rupture Hymen?
hello sir,
i am 19years old girl and i have a boyfriend.I am very tensed,depressed,stressed these days,my exams are going on but i could not pay attention to it,i am becoming so ill by thinking this
i don't remember may be i was 8 or 9 yrs old when my cousin use to take me on scooter & he use to masturbate himself by rubbing himself to me,i don't remember properly but i am sure that it was not sex,rarely he use to come to home
Then i was addicted to that and started masturbating with a pillow it lasts for only some months because i realized that it was wrong
my family is very religious if they will know about this they will scold me so much,i have some questions please help me
1.will i bleed on my first night?
2.masturbating with pillow harmed my hymen?
3.do masturbating girls don't bleed?
i am 19years old girl and i have a boyfriend.I am very tensed,depressed,stressed these days,my exams are going on but i could not pay attention to it,i am becoming so ill by thinking this
i don't remember may be i was 8 or 9 yrs old when my cousin use to take me on scooter & he use to masturbate himself by rubbing himself to me,i don't remember properly but i am sure that it was not sex,rarely he use to come to home
Then i was addicted to that and started masturbating with a pillow it lasts for only some months because i realized that it was wrong
my family is very religious if they will know about this they will scold me so much,i have some questions please help me
1.will i bleed on my first night?
2.masturbating with pillow harmed my hymen?
3.do masturbating girls don't bleed?
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Sun, 21 Apr 2013
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1. Not necessarily,but chances are there that u can bleed during your first intercourse.
2. Mastrubating with pillow does not rupture your hymen. But if you use long objects like toys or pen or so,they may rupture.
3. Mastrubating girls dont bleed.Dont confuse bleeding with mastrubating. Bleeding is during your periods. Mastrubating just gratifies your sexual desires and lead to white fluid (cumm) in the vagina thats slimy.
2. Mastrubating with pillow does not rupture your hymen. But if you use long objects like toys or pen or so,they may rupture.
3. Mastrubating girls dont bleed.Dont confuse bleeding with mastrubating. Bleeding is during your periods. Mastrubating just gratifies your sexual desires and lead to white fluid (cumm) in the vagina thats slimy.
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Hi,
Welcome to HCM,
Masturbation is a common practice. Whether hymen will repture or not during masturbation, depends on how deep you are inserting your finger or object while performing it. As you have not bleeded previously after masturbation, your hymen seems to be intact.
(1) I expect you to bleed on your first night.
(2) Chances of injury to hymen with pillow are very very less.
(3) If someone is rubbing only clitoris during masturbation but not penitrating deep, is expected to bleed on first night.
It will be better to get yourself examined by a female doctor & get confirmed that whether your hymen is intact or not? If it is not intact, you can try surgical reconstruction.
With good wishes,
(Dr.C.S.Sharma)
Welcome to HCM,
Masturbation is a common practice. Whether hymen will repture or not during masturbation, depends on how deep you are inserting your finger or object while performing it. As you have not bleeded previously after masturbation, your hymen seems to be intact.
(1) I expect you to bleed on your first night.
(2) Chances of injury to hymen with pillow are very very less.
(3) If someone is rubbing only clitoris during masturbation but not penitrating deep, is expected to bleed on first night.
It will be better to get yourself examined by a female doctor & get confirmed that whether your hymen is intact or not? If it is not intact, you can try surgical reconstruction.
With good wishes,
(Dr.C.S.Sharma)
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Hi,
Welcome and thanks for posting your to HCM.
I can understand the mental concern you are facing. After reading the whole series of event the the answers depends upon that - is your hymen is intact or not.
Now if your hymen is intact then obviously you would be having bleeding on your first night. Masturbating with pillow can never harm your hymen. And for the third part of question depends upon the object or the depth of the object used - meaning if you have used objects like pillow or related things which are not penetrating into the vagina then your hymen would be intact but if somebody used penetrating thing like even index finger thickness then the hymen gets injured.
there are many a instances where the hymen is broken with even simple injuries like cycling, running or any sports activity and there are instances where even being presence of hymen person may not bleed.
You can visit a gynecologist to get the above things checked. Even if it is broken plastic surgery is quite a simple day care procedure which can do hymenoplasty. As you used pillow only so there are minimal or no chance of any harm to the hymen.
hope to have provided the best possible information,
With best of hair wishes,
Dr. Sanjay K Kanodia
M.D. (Dermatology and STD)
Welcome and thanks for posting your to HCM.
I can understand the mental concern you are facing. After reading the whole series of event the the answers depends upon that - is your hymen is intact or not.
Now if your hymen is intact then obviously you would be having bleeding on your first night. Masturbating with pillow can never harm your hymen. And for the third part of question depends upon the object or the depth of the object used - meaning if you have used objects like pillow or related things which are not penetrating into the vagina then your hymen would be intact but if somebody used penetrating thing like even index finger thickness then the hymen gets injured.
there are many a instances where the hymen is broken with even simple injuries like cycling, running or any sports activity and there are instances where even being presence of hymen person may not bleed.
You can visit a gynecologist to get the above things checked. Even if it is broken plastic surgery is quite a simple day care procedure which can do hymenoplasty. As you used pillow only so there are minimal or no chance of any harm to the hymen.
hope to have provided the best possible information,
With best of hair wishes,
Dr. Sanjay K Kanodia
M.D. (Dermatology and STD)
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Hello,
Thanks for choosing health care magic for posting your query.
Its not that every virgin has to bleed during the first sexual contact. Infact virginity cannot be determined by the presence of hymen. Hymen can rupture due to various reasons and it can be even before the first intercourse.
Hence you need not be so much worried about your bleeding.You know about yourself that you are a virgin and thats it.
masturbating with a pillow will never harm your hymen.
Masturbating girls can also bleed if the hymen is intact.
Hope I am able to answer your concerns.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
In future if you wish to contact me directly, you can use the below mentioned link:
bit.ly/dr-srikanth-reddy
Wish you good health,
Dr. Srikanth Reddy M.D.
Thanks for choosing health care magic for posting your query.
Its not that every virgin has to bleed during the first sexual contact. Infact virginity cannot be determined by the presence of hymen. Hymen can rupture due to various reasons and it can be even before the first intercourse.
Hence you need not be so much worried about your bleeding.You know about yourself that you are a virgin and thats it.
masturbating with a pillow will never harm your hymen.
Masturbating girls can also bleed if the hymen is intact.
Hope I am able to answer your concerns.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
In future if you wish to contact me directly, you can use the below mentioned link:
bit.ly/dr-srikanth-reddy
Wish you good health,
Dr. Srikanth Reddy M.D.
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