hello, i'm 45 years old. I worked my whole working lifetime. until I got sick in 2010. I suffer from ibs, sleep apnea,depression,and aneixty. I couldn't work anymore. due to my suiduial thoughts, panic attacks, and social phobia. my wives family thinks I should work. I've tried but, I would suffer panic attacks. when I was around people. her mom thinks/I guess/ that i'm lazy.i've been in and out of mental hospitals. I now get ssi. her mom pays the bills. and, won't let me come home. until I have a job....again. I have 3 boys that live there. I miss my family. how can I get her mom to understand and except what i'm going through? if I could work. I would be.