my mom is 89 and has urinary incontinence at night.. has tried oxybutynin(too drowsy during day after taking a pill at night)..and is also taking mybetriq..... Dr just tried her on vesicare and she had face swelling, blurry vision etc...we stopped that 5 days ago and she is still having vision issues, will that go away soon? Dr wants her now on Enablex but I am afraid to pick it up at druggist...same side effects as vesicare... she wants to feel like herself again..she also takes heart meds too! any thoughts on these meds?