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How To Overcome The Depression And Lack Of Interest In Sexual Life?
Sir,
I am ramya,(30 yrs old weight 58 kgs, height 5.3" done a ectopic 3 months before) from Coimbatore..Married 2 yrs before.Still we can't lead a proper sex life. We did'nt have a knowledge and interest about that subject, moreover he is very much shy also. But we wish to have a child.. We are consulting a gynecologist she took a folicle test and fix a date and told to do intercourseat that time he is using viagra 50 mg tablet, basically he is not interested, so trying like a machine so i can't cooperate with him...I am totally depressed..What to do? please help me.
I am ramya,(30 yrs old weight 58 kgs, height 5.3" done a ectopic 3 months before) from Coimbatore..Married 2 yrs before.Still we can't lead a proper sex life. We did'nt have a knowledge and interest about that subject, moreover he is very much shy also. But we wish to have a child.. We are consulting a gynecologist she took a folicle test and fix a date and told to do intercourseat that time he is using viagra 50 mg tablet, basically he is not interested, so trying like a machine so i can't cooperate with him...I am totally depressed..What to do? please help me.
Tue, 3 Jun 2014
Hi there Ramya.
I understand what you are going through & empathise with you.
These things can sometimes best be sorted out with a visit to a clinical psychologist or a doctor you can confide in & who lends you an empathetic ear.
From your description of events, it does not appear that there is any hormonal or other issue. The issue seems more one of compatiability.
I would suggest you first get your husband's Semen Analysis done at a laboratory near you. It has to be done within 30 minutes of ejaculation or collection for best results so chose a lab close to you or get him to collect it in the centre itself.
Then, do a T3/T4/TSH thyroid test for both of you to see if there are any issues & FBS/PPBS test to rule out any diabtes in either/both of you.
Then, since Coimbatore is close to Bangalore, please consider coming across with all these reports for a consultation outside your immediate environment. This may help you both & while it is always best both partners' consult together, in your case, you may come with all the documents & we can first rule out any issues & then counsel you accordingly. You may alternatively feel free to trace me down & call me on my cell.
Don't worry...it can easily be sorted out if one has an open mind. There must be some baggage holding up proceedings & once this is talked over, I doubt that you will need the help of Viagra et al.
Good Luck & Hope it works out well for you in your sex life.
Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD
I understand what you are going through & empathise with you.
These things can sometimes best be sorted out with a visit to a clinical psychologist or a doctor you can confide in & who lends you an empathetic ear.
From your description of events, it does not appear that there is any hormonal or other issue. The issue seems more one of compatiability.
I would suggest you first get your husband's Semen Analysis done at a laboratory near you. It has to be done within 30 minutes of ejaculation or collection for best results so chose a lab close to you or get him to collect it in the centre itself.
Then, do a T3/T4/TSH thyroid test for both of you to see if there are any issues & FBS/PPBS test to rule out any diabtes in either/both of you.
Then, since Coimbatore is close to Bangalore, please consider coming across with all these reports for a consultation outside your immediate environment. This may help you both & while it is always best both partners' consult together, in your case, you may come with all the documents & we can first rule out any issues & then counsel you accordingly. You may alternatively feel free to trace me down & call me on my cell.
Don't worry...it can easily be sorted out if one has an open mind. There must be some baggage holding up proceedings & once this is talked over, I doubt that you will need the help of Viagra et al.
Good Luck & Hope it works out well for you in your sex life.
Dr Praveen Rodrigues MD
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