Hello diyaswapna
Welcome to HCM
There are a lot of causes of poor sexual drive or libido in him. As he is of young age and you people are having only 5 years marriage life, your sexual life should be active. But it may be due to a lot of reasons-
- Alcohol is one of major risk in causing decreased libido, alcohol metabolites cause toxicity in liver or
fatty liver and later
hepatitis so a lot of
hormone imbalance occurs especially estrogen concentration increases and
testosterone decreases so poor libido,
anorgasmia may occur.
- second reason may be due to some other drug intake along with alcohol, so check for other drug intake.
- There is usually no relation with curved shape of penis while erected as its normal to some extent unless there is some chord in penis etc.
Best way to deal with the problem is don't be shy as you are his wife and talk with him regarding your desires and discuss where the exact problem is.
Secondly get his Liver Function Tests done and check for hepatitis and other LFTs.
Third visit a good
psychiatrist for marital counseling.
Forth is use of medicines like
sildenafil, tadalafil but only under expert guidance.
Hope I cleared your doubt.
Take Care