I Have Severe Folliculitis And Its Very Severe.

I have this condition, and its very severe. I have painful red bumps under my arms, my groin, inner thighs, and im starting to get it under my breasts. I also have scars and discoloration because i ve had it for so long. it holds me back from doing so many things. I do not feel comfortable wearing shorts or short sleeved shirts when it s hot out, which makes my skin even worse because it cant breathe. I don t feel comfortable in a bathing suit, or being intimate or even dating men. I m only 21 and I ve had this condition since I was 11 or so, and I have never been able to get rid of it. I tried laser hair removal , but it was very painful and the hair still grows back. I don t know what to do anymore, please help.