I have suspect my 4 yr. old is being sexually abused by my husband, her father. There are symptoms of sore and red vagina, she also gains pleasure by masterbating , not by touching her vagina but pressing into her abdominal area and does this on a constant basis. She has also had constipation issues for two yrs, that eases with the help of miralax or exlax, recccomended by ped. gastro, who believes this behavioral. About two weeks ago I came home from work to find my daughter and husband getting out of the shower together. He said she didn t want to stay in the bedroom by herself. I have an extreme tendency to over analyze and read into things way to much, so Im wondering if I am over-thinking things once again???