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Is It Normal, Initially, To Be Unable To Have Penetrative Sex? How To Treat This Condition?
Good evening,
I've got a sexual health query that I need medical help on, hope you can help me please.
I am a 35 year old female, I am Christian and saved myself for marriage a year and a half ago, me and my husband have not been able to have penetrative sex as he can't enter me, to be honest we haven't used lube yet which I've heard works.
I have looked at myself down there and can see I look closed up, I have never used tampons but been able to get a small vibrator inside to try and get used of something to go inside, what I want to ask is this normal to be closed up at first or do I have a problem?
I've got a sexual health query that I need medical help on, hope you can help me please.
I am a 35 year old female, I am Christian and saved myself for marriage a year and a half ago, me and my husband have not been able to have penetrative sex as he can't enter me, to be honest we haven't used lube yet which I've heard works.
I have looked at myself down there and can see I look closed up, I have never used tampons but been able to get a small vibrator inside to try and get used of something to go inside, what I want to ask is this normal to be closed up at first or do I have a problem?
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Fri, 13 Dec 2013
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Hi
It is common usually with first timers
The defect may that your husband may have low confidence or may not know correct way to penetrate
Simple solution is that you sit with your lrgs on either sides on your husband while he lies downguide his penis in you vagina by pushing yourseg down on his erect penis gently Some lubricant may be applied on the penis .Do push youself gently down on penis and do it slowly You may experience some pain .You have to br activate partner performing the act by movement of up and down till semen discharge .
Do this during few sexual season and once your husband get confidance and your vagina get used to it nomal sex should take
place .Look like from your detail that vagina is not closed
Dr Lal
Psychiatrist
It is common usually with first timers
The defect may that your husband may have low confidence or may not know correct way to penetrate
Simple solution is that you sit with your lrgs on either sides on your husband while he lies downguide his penis in you vagina by pushing yourseg down on his erect penis gently Some lubricant may be applied on the penis .Do push youself gently down on penis and do it slowly You may experience some pain .You have to br activate partner performing the act by movement of up and down till semen discharge .
Do this during few sexual season and once your husband get confidance and your vagina get used to it nomal sex should take
place .Look like from your detail that vagina is not closed
Dr Lal
Psychiatrist
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