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Is There Something Wrong With Me Having This Sexual Problem At 23 Years Old?

I'm turning 23 in 1 week and I'm engaged. I'm very much in love with and attracted to my fiance but we're having problems in the bedroom. I have no sex drive whatsoever. I have never even masturbated a day in my life. I have little to no interest in sex, never really have. I often have to force myself to get in the mood. The sex with my fiance is fantastic but I have to force myself for it to get to that point. I feel awful about this and he does too. Is there something wrong with me having this problem at 23 years old?
posted on Sun, 17 Jan 2010
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I think you will need to take a psychiatric consultation. At your age due to apprehension and thoughts about performance may make you fell like this..you should be fine after a counselling session.
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Emran's  Response
I'm 18 and having the same type of issues. I'd like to be more into it but I just am not. I fear it may be ruining my relationship..what should i do now??plz help me out..
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Dear Friend,

Welcome to HealthcareMagic Forum.

Lack of desire may be due to
1. Decreased pleasure / Orgasms
2. Stress and Strain
3. Medications
4. Vaginismus (Painful Intercourse)
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ashlee's  Response
Hi im 22 years old and im experiencing the same problem... I have no sex drive... i have been seeking information but nothing seems to be helping my situation...
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one_tall_ndn's  Response
Maybe lack of hormones?
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ldavismath11's  Response
I'm 24 and having the same type of issues. I'd like to be more into it but I just am not. I fear it may be ruining my relationships and I know sex drive often gets worse as you get older and this scares me! Let me know if you had any luck
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Is There Something Wrong With Me Having This Sexual Problem At 23 Years Old?

I think you will need to take a psychiatric consultation. At your age due to apprehension and thoughts about performance may make you fell like this..you should be fine after a counselling session.