My husband is 42 yrs old, for the past 5-6 yrs he does not show any interest in sex. He is hypertensive and on drugs one of them is Listril. We have no itimacy for any sort. I complain of how little sex we have (once in 1 yr or 2 yrs) the last time was 1 1/2 yrs back. Because I keep complaining he now says he has ED and does not feel like it. I have just once witness a erectile Dysfuntion .. but my complain is he does not even come for a itimate moment together.. then how doe she know he has ED? Is this a case of low libido or ED .. He says it can't be treated and would not like to go for any consultation. I feel not wanted and not not loved. Please help!