Hi, I will be 43 on Jan. 5, 2014.  I have always had a very predictable cycle. Usually right on 28 days.  For the past year (Since Jan. 2013), I have been a little off but not much.  Some months I will be 2 days late or the next month, I may be 2-3 days early.  The latest that I have ever been was in January and I was 4 days late.  My period always lasts for 6-7 days.  My last period started November 27.  I was scheduled to start on December 24.  On December 20, my husband and I had unprotected sex.  I did not think a lot about it since I was going to start in 4 days, I knew that my chance of getting pregnant was pretty much zero.  As of today (December 31), I still have not started.  I have taken 2 home pregnancy tests and both showed negative.  Today I went for a blood test and it also came back negative.  I have been bloated and having cramps in my lower abdomen around my ovaries.  Could I be pregnant or is it more likely that I am starting perimenopause?
                                                        
                                                     
                                                    
                                                        
                                                            
                                                            
                                                            
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