ok, my boyfriend is 53 in really good shape, a smoker, cigs and weed, we also are meth users. we were just having sex and he got so out of breath he got up and had to stand leaning against the wall. he said he had tightness in his chest and then a severe headache. I gave him aspirin, which helped, and when I took his blood pressure it w a s 146 over 84 with a pulse of 76.