Suggest Medication For High BP

I am very concerned about my blood pressure, I am 50 year old women with periodic menstrals and have very high blood pressure, I seem to get all the rare side effects with medication, although it does bring my pressure down, the recent event was with cozar i got serious neck and leg pain, and hazaar, itching, ringing in the ears with metroprolol and coughing and wheezng with lisinipril. I ve tried Trinidate ans a host of other med s atenalol, adacand, what do you suggest