Hi, I am a 64 year old man who met a 19 year old young lady who works as a Hostess at a Restaurant I frequent. Over the course of some months, I have spoken to her many times. However, against all my will, I find myself obsessed with thoughts of her. I have tried counseling, and just this morning, had an appointment with a registered Hypnotist, as I was assured this would solve my problem. Unfortunately, the attempt to hypnotize me was unsuccessful, and having anticipated a cure , I now feel worse than before. I feel a lot of emotional distress, as I am aware of the impropriety of the situation. I would welcome any suggestions. Thanks, Robert.