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Hello, I m a 16 year old girl who just got my period about 6 months ago. Every since last year I have thick white(kind of like cottage cheese sometimes, but can also be clear) discharge every day. I have to wear a pad everyday and I hate it! :( I m a virgin, and I also went to my doctor and she said it was fine but I don t know what to do! Also, another thing. I was with my boyfriend and he had a dildo type thing... And it was probably like 5 inches. He put it up in my vagina and it didn t fit! Only half went in, it felt like there was a barrier blocking it, and it hurt REALLY bad when he pressed on it? I think it s my cervix but he has an 8 inch penis will I be able to have sex? I m not ready yet, but I don t want to only be able to put a 3 inch thing up there :( please reply ASAP
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Hello,
Thank you for writing to HCM,
There is always pain issue while having first time intercourse or you may say while loosing virginity.
It just happen as while having first time sex size of vagina is too small and penis cant enter easily so that people try for hard and this could be make painful intercourse.
There is another possibility that vagina not having enough pre cum as it should be before entering penis in it. this may lead you to pain or even bleeding.
If its because of less pre cum amount than i would like to advice you that you should go for intercourse go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse and less pain.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
Thank you for writing to HCM,
There is always pain issue while having first time intercourse or you may say while loosing virginity.
It just happen as while having first time sex size of vagina is too small and penis cant enter easily so that people try for hard and this could be make painful intercourse.
There is another possibility that vagina not having enough pre cum as it should be before entering penis in it. this may lead you to pain or even bleeding.
If its because of less pre cum amount than i would like to advice you that you should go for intercourse go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse and less pain.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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