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Hi Doctor,I am a newly married man.I am 27 years of age. I have never had sex with my wife. We have had oral pleasures with each other for few days. I have no idea of penetrating sex into my wife vagina neither has she. My friends suggested me to see porn to get an idea of penetration and I shared it with my wife and she feels wrong to watch porn as she feels it as betrayal. We have been having issues with our life as we both are neither satisfied with our sex lives. Also because of this, we are having other arguments and fights. I have also tried to convincing her to meet a doctor,but she feels shy. Please help me
free communicative and mutual understanding will help sex is mutual act. you have to discuss all thing with your wife. so try to do mutually and tell your problem to partner this will reduce your anxiety and able to do well.
sex education is must.
if she does not like porn than tell her about how to do.
once you will learn than it will easy for your wife.
so her pictures and some stories.
Gradually and slowly involve in sex
free communication will help.
once both of you will learn than it will easy to do and afterwards you don't face this problem again.
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Suggest Remedy For Sexual Health Problem
hii dear I admire you for positive outlook. relationship is very important. free communicative and mutual understanding will help sex is mutual act. you have to discuss all thing with your wife. so try to do mutually and tell your problem to partner this will reduce your anxiety and able to do well. sex education is must. if she does not like porn than tell her about how to do. once you will learn than it will easy for your wife. so her pictures and some stories. Gradually and slowly involve in sex free communication will help. once both of you will learn than it will easy to do and afterwards you don t face this problem again.