Hi,
Thank you for posting your query in healthcaremagic.com
This is Dr. Swarnava dattagupta answering your query.
See, women gain weight during
pregnancy and
lactation. This is quite normal and happens with everyone. But you could not lose weight following that, and hence that is the concern.
Dont be desperate and obviously there is no reason to hate yourself.
You have not told me your age, height and weight. It would be easier for me to calculate your BMI with those information and i can tell you how much weight you need to lose.
For now, do the following-
Avoid fatty and oily food
Take small frequent meal rather than heavy meals
Do exercise like jogging, cycling etc for better metabolism
Visit a DIETITIAN for a diet chart that you can follow
Hope i have answered your question
Contact me for any further queries
Regards