My 79yr old mother hoards food. She has 2 fridges, 1 large freezer full to the brim and one pantry bursting with food. Her house is immaculate. My father died in 1994, so she has been a widow for a long time. She spends a lot of money on food especially bread. She has at least 3-4 loaves in the house. She refuses to freeze the bread as she says she hates bread that has been in the freezer. I do not have a close relationship with her as I do feel rather intimidated by her. She speaks to my sister who lives abroad 1-2times a week but not me who lives 5miles away. My relationship with my sister is going downhill as she admits she does not listen to anything I say to her regarding any subject. She especially does not want to know anything about mum's food hoarding.