Hi, I have shown no signs of HIV etc and have been with my wife now for over 8 years and we have 2 kids one aged 4 and the other at 2 year old, about 10 years back I had sex with someone with a condom but gave them oral sex and I shouldnt really of as I was unsure of there history. I have been run down recently due to lack of sleep and work and have developed swollen glands and night sweats but they are clearing up after 3 days, My wife had numerous blood tests when she was pregnant and tested negative for HIV, would that mean i am the same, we have had unprotected sex for over 8 years now?? Thanks