This is very hard to talk about. But I am 18 years old (Almost 19) and I still wet the bed. I have tried everything in the book and taken every med you that is in the book...but nothing works. I have been on desmopressin for many years now because it is what lowers how often it happens, but doesn t work every night. Doctors have told me since I was 8 that this is something that I would grow out of. But when they noticed I wasn t growing out of it they ran every test they could think of. I am not a deep sleeper, my bladder and kidneys are normal size and are healthy,I don t drink many fluids at night, I use the bath room many many times before going to bed to avoid bed wetting, and I do not have Diabetes. I have changed my life to work around this. Including never staying at a friends house. Quitting the dance team because we had to go to a week long dance camp or we couldn t be on the team. And changing colleges because the college I planned to go too required freshmen to live in a dorm. My own boy friend doesn t know,and we are getting next year.