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Dr. Andrew Rynne
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Dr. Andrew Rynne

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Suggest Treatment For Lack Of Interest In Sex

Hi, I am very much disappointed and depressed while writing this letter. My marriage is on the brink of separation. The reason for all this thing is my wife is not interested in sex. And bec of this I fight with her every day and I can’t love her. She is saying that doing sex once in a month is enough. And my need is not normal. And she doesn’t like me touching her body parts. We married in 2006 that is around five years back. We have a kid of three years old. Since marriage I can say I have had sex with her not many time. And every time if I want sex I have to fight with her and force her to do it. And around 90% of these time see won’t allow me to have intercourse with her.
Fri, 16 Jan 2015
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Hello sir and welcome.

It appears as though yours has been an arranged marriage. These situations are tricky and sensitive. We need to find out why exactly your wife is not interested in sexual intercourse. There will always be a reason, may be she has not felt sexually attracted to you because she is not ready for that yet, may be she needs to be aroused sexually, may be you have to work on your presentation, may be she is not healthy, may be she has a bitter past which she has not gotten over with, etc.

You need to be supportive, and may be convince her to visit a psychiatrist for counselling. You need to have a more elaborate discussion and so I would recommend you to write back to me using our premium service or meet a doctor.

Hope this helps provide direction at the least.

Best wishes.
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Suggest Treatment For Lack Of Interest In Sex

Hello sir and welcome. It appears as though yours has been an arranged marriage. These situations are tricky and sensitive. We need to find out why exactly your wife is not interested in sexual intercourse. There will always be a reason, may be she has not felt sexually attracted to you because she is not ready for that yet, may be she needs to be aroused sexually, may be you have to work on your presentation, may be she is not healthy, may be she has a bitter past which she has not gotten over with, etc. You need to be supportive, and may be convince her to visit a psychiatrist for counselling. You need to have a more elaborate discussion and so I would recommend you to write back to me using our premium service or meet a doctor. Hope this helps provide direction at the least. Best wishes.