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hi i m 29 years old, been married for 10 years and got 3 kids, my problem is that i don t feel horny as i used to before, now it takes a week or even 2 weeks that i let my partner have sex with me, when my partner comes next to me for sex i tell him i don t want it that i dont feel like it, due to that we are having problem, please tell me is this normal and what i can do to solve this problem, thanks
Busy schedule, Stress and many more reason may affect sexual desire.
I had gone through your query and as you mentioned that you have 3 childs would like to suggest you that busy schedule might be factor for low sex drive. Still you could do something like spend more and more time for sex with your partner.
i would like to advice you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, Busy schedule, Stress and many more reason may affect sexual desire. I had gone through your query and as you mentioned that you have 3 childs would like to suggest you that busy schedule might be factor for low sex drive. Still you could do something like spend more and more time for sex with your partner. i would like to advice you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati