I have always been very interested in sex and able to lubricate easily. However, I had a hestorectomy (?) in 2006. I was very active sexually for several years after. Currently, I've not had a partner for about 2 years but do still give myself pleasure. The last couple of months, though, when inserting my "toy", I experience an extreme amount of pain! It seems as if my vaginal wall is so very tight and even though I try to relax, it is difficuilt. I do use a lubricate.
Is there something I can do to relax the walls?