Good evening, About two days ago, I had a bowel movement. While I was sitting on the toilet, it seemed as though my anus was stretching to the point where it was getting painful. Since then, I have been having pains, either when I am sitting down or when I try to hold back a bowel (I don t know what it is called exactly, but sometimes when I do have a bowel and can t make it to a toilet, I try to pull it back in). When I looked at it further, it seems as though there is a lump of some sort, just outside the right side of my anus, on my right buttock. It seems as though this lump was pushed out from the inside of my anus and is causing all the pain. Is this normal and if so, how can I relieve myself of the pain? I think last time this happened to me, I simply put soap on my finger and pushed it back inside, but this time, that doesn t seem to be working.