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What Causes Difficulty In Penetration During The First Intercourse?

Hi, I am 29 and married my long time girlfriend a couple of months ago. We are having problem with intercourse. In spite of our efforts, we cannot have a successful penetration. Whenever, I push hard - the penis instead of going inside, gets deflected(moves to the outer part). this is causing much stress in our life. As a result, lately we don't feel like trying it lest it be another failure.
posted on Fri, 14 Mar 2014
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Hello,

Thank you for writing to us,

I had gone through your description and would suggest here for Oral sex first before you going for intercourse.

Because while you going for oral sex what will happened that your and your girlfriend's organs will relies some sticky liquid which use for easily enter your penis in vagina.

SO, while you go for oral sex your penis and your partner's vagina will prepare better for intercourse.

While having sex use the simplest position in which your penis should enter in vagina easily.

Like you should try that you take your body on bed and your partner should upon your body with sitting and try to enter.

It will be more helpful.

Or you should concern a good doctor for more help.

Hope this will helpful to you.

Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati.
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What Causes Difficulty In Penetration During The First Intercourse?

Hello, Thank you for writing to us, I had gone through your description and would suggest here for Oral sex first before you going for intercourse. Because while you going for oral sex what will happened that your and your girlfriend s organs will relies some sticky liquid which use for easily enter your penis in vagina. SO, while you go for oral sex your penis and your partner s vagina will prepare better for intercourse. While having sex use the simplest position in which your penis should enter in vagina easily. Like you should try that you take your body on bed and your partner should upon your body with sitting and try to enter. It will be more helpful. Or you should concern a good doctor for more help. Hope this will helpful to you. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati.