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What Causes Inability To Reach Orgasm?

hi ,, im 18,, and im having my firs sex experiance, and ive had sex with my firs boyfriend for several times,, like 6 to 8 times, and ive had never cum! we have had sex for an hour and still i couldnt cum! and he gave me finger jub for like 15 mins! still not helping!! but I feel way too sensitive when he finger f**ks me but as in normal sex i can only feel pain! ive had masterbaited few times, some say that its cuz uve had masterbaited! what am suppose to do???
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Hi, thanks for query. There are roughly 4 phases of human sexual response cycle; excitement-plateau-orgasm-resolution. For achieving effective sexual pleasure; one needs to have successful physical & mental preparation which shall occur only after excitement & plateau phases. For a good sexual excitement, one needs to feel intimate, safe, secure with ones partner & excitement can NOT occur ONLY by practicing techniques like fingering ( & few others shown in pornographic movies, advocated in pornographic books). Hence its my sincere advice to try & strike a secure mental bond of love & affection with your bed partner first after which you shall surely achieve sexual orgasm. lastly try to practice a safe & protected sex always! Good luck
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What Causes Inability To Reach Orgasm?

Hi, thanks for query. There are roughly 4 phases of human sexual response cycle; excitement-plateau-orgasm-resolution. For achieving effective sexual pleasure; one needs to have successful physical & mental preparation which shall occur only after excitement & plateau phases. For a good sexual excitement, one needs to feel intimate, safe, secure with ones partner & excitement can NOT occur ONLY by practicing techniques like fingering ( & few others shown in pornographic movies, advocated in pornographic books). Hence its my sincere advice to try & strike a secure mental bond of love & affection with your bed partner first after which you shall surely achieve sexual orgasm. lastly try to practice a safe & protected sex always! Good luck