Hello and Welcome to ‘Ask A Doctor’ service.
I have reviewed your query and here is my advice.
Problems with bladder and sex are due to compromise at the 
spinal canal level affecting neuronal control of the same. It is the part of the neurological treatment and recovery only will give more or less benefit to your symptoms.
Supportive measures would be: 
• Balanced nutritious diet 
• Regular walking, exercises, yoga
• 
Pelvic floor exercises for bladder control as per expert physiotherapist advice
• Quit alcohol and 
smoking • Maintain hydration to prevent secondary infection 
• Be positive mentally as you have won so many battles of the tough surgeries for the positive outcomes.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Regards,
Dr. Bhagyesh V. Patel