dear,
as I can figure here, your major problem is the concern regarding getting infected from your partner.
firstly, there is a extremely minute possibility to catch an infection via mouth entry as the digestive enzymes destroys most of the organisms.
secondly, the infected status of your partner is still unknown, here you can look for any signs of infections like a
fever, respiratory problems or prolonged illness, or extreme
weight loss.These are features suggestive of an underlying chronic infection, however one can be certain only on confirmatory test.
thirdly, an
HIV can be detected in body after six months from getting infected. And there should be signs of viral prodromal syndrome prior to AIDS
my advice would be to watch out for any symptoms of
flu or fever not responding to
antipyretic medication and weakness in coming days, do not worry as there is no reason to be. There are no such complaints suggestive of infection in you at present, stay relaxed.
welcome for further queries.
hope to have satisfied your doubt.
thank you. stay healthy.
Dr Pankaj Borade