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Hi there.. i have a bit of a concern regarding when my boyfriend fingers me. iam 19 years now, and am a virgin. i find that every time he fingers me intensely, roughly for about 15 minutes atleast, i bleed straight after. it only starts 5, 10 minutes later, and continues for between 2 and 3 days. its not very heavy bleeding, about semi-heavy. what could the problems be?
Bleeding after or during fingering/sex might be there so nothing to more worry about it.
As i had gone through your query you mentioned that you are virgin so that bleeding might be there and also possibility of low amount of pre cum in vagina. Bleeding may occur if amount of pre cum from vagina is less and due to that finger cant enter in vagina easily and due to that it might possible that you had bleeding issue.
You may use lubricant if it happens each time you had fingering or sex so that penis could enter easily.
But i would suggest to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for fingering or intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still you are facing the same issue than i would like to suggest to concern a good doctor and check for issue they will suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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What Causes Vaginal Bleeding After Sex?
Hello, Thank you for writing to us, Bleeding after or during fingering/sex might be there so nothing to more worry about it. As i had gone through your query you mentioned that you are virgin so that bleeding might be there and also possibility of low amount of pre cum in vagina. Bleeding may occur if amount of pre cum from vagina is less and due to that finger cant enter in vagina easily and due to that it might possible that you had bleeding issue. You may use lubricant if it happens each time you had fingering or sex so that penis could enter easily. But i would suggest to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for fingering or intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Still you are facing the same issue than i would like to suggest to concern a good doctor and check for issue they will suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati