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We understand your concerns
I went through your details.
autism spectrum disorder. Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) can cause a wide range of symptoms, and there are many different ways those symptoms can be grouped. Usually a single symptom like shying away from people can never indicate autism.
At the age of 3 or 4, it is quite natural for children to shy away from other people just because their development process needs that. But you said the doctor diagnosed the child for autism and the child had all the symptoms. You also say that the doctor did not prescribe any treatment plan. That is not according to the practice methodology. At the age of 3 or 4, if autism is diagnosed, treatment is a must. I also wonder, you also did not consult another psychiatrist all these 4 years.
I don't say the doctor got it wrong. But you need to consult another clinical
psychologist or psychiatrist to get an overall assessment of autism. The treatment for autism is a must and autism cannot be treated without medicines. Please do
consult a psychiatrist / psychologist ASAP.
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Hope this answers your query. Further clarifications are welcome.
Good luck. Take care.