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Hi, this concerns my husband. I have noticed accidentally, without him know (he prefers do it when he is alone), that he likes to watch and download sex related pictures. Also see porn but without telling me, like hiding it. Why? Also, I am usually the one asking for sex, he does not look for it but seems that he prefers his pictures and doing it alone :S Any advise? thanks, E.
This is a bit complicated situation and there can be many reasons for his behaviour.
It can mean that he enjoys sex with you and also likes to masturbate to satisfy himself.
It can be due to your husband trying to get a physical pleasure by thinking and imagining fantasy sex with pictures of girls.
It can also be that the man enjoys masturbation more than sexual intercourse with a partner.
It can also be that due to some reason he is unable to get a good erection during sex but can manage one during masturbation.
This matter needs to be handled with care between the both of you. It is a delicate situation and needs to be discussed when both of you are relaxed and without hurting each others feelings.
If required you both can discuss your sexual needs and even take help from a sex counselor.
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Hi, Thanks for writing in. This is a bit complicated situation and there can be many reasons for his behaviour. It can mean that he enjoys sex with you and also likes to masturbate to satisfy himself. It can be due to your husband trying to get a physical pleasure by thinking and imagining fantasy sex with pictures of girls. It can also be that the man enjoys masturbation more than sexual intercourse with a partner. It can also be that due to some reason he is unable to get a good erection during sex but can manage one during masturbation. This matter needs to be handled with care between the both of you. It is a delicate situation and needs to be discussed when both of you are relaxed and without hurting each others feelings. If required you both can discuss your sexual needs and even take help from a sex counselor.