Hello
Oral sex is a much less efficient mode of transmission of HIV infection.A number of studies have reported that the incidence of transmission of infection by oral sex among couples discordant for HIV was extremely low ( nearly nil i.e . zero according to one study).
This is because in mouth saliva present and saliva contains endogenous
antiviral factors , so kissing or oral exposure can't transmit HIV infection.
During vaginal sex there was condom on your penis , so this route was a safe way.
Antibodies to HIV begin to appear within 2 weeks of initial infection, and the period time between initial infection and the development of detectable antibodies is rarely more than 3 months .
In your case , since you are so stressed , so please get in P 24 nucleic acid amplification ( rapid pcr
rna ) test.
You are not having or not developed any symptoms , so this is also an indication that you are HIV free .
If you would have been HIV infected , symptoms may have developed (
acute HIV syndrome i.e Retroviral ).
Hope this will help you.