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Why I Am Not Getting Orgasm During Sex?

Hi, I am 26 years old and been married for 4 years. My husband has never been able to give me an orgasm with any kind of stimulation. Even I can t give myself and orgasm with out a vibrator. Both my husband and I saved ourselves for marriage and were very excited about having sex after we got married. At first I didn t worry about orgasms because I knew we were both new at sex, but after about 6 months of having a lot of sex there was still nothing. I ve tried all those things out there that are supposed to spice things up so now those are boring too. Now I just get bored no matter what he does so I just try to enjoy what I can and have just about given up on him giving me an orgasm. Also, he has P.E. problems and my clit. is a little on the small side. I m so depressed b/c sex isn t at all what I thought it would be and we ve been married only 4 years and have sex less than once a week. We still love each other and just want a solution that will work for us. Please Help
Mon, 7 Jul 2014
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Dear User thanks for asking your query without any hesitation.
I would like to tell that you can be helped for sure.
If you getting orgasam with vibrator, it is sure that you can have same during intercourse.
There may be chance of some problem in procedure of intercourse by you.
First of all your husband should be treated for premature ejaculation by medicines and other counselling and behaviour therapy like stop and squeez and master and jhonson.
For all above options you should consult a psychiatrist who is doing sexologist practice or some qualified sexologist.
Plese remember for any sexual problem couple therapy needed as it is act of two.
So without waitng go ahead, result will be there.
If still any query , you can ask me.
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Why I Am Not Getting Orgasm During Sex?

Dear User thanks for asking your query without any hesitation. I would like to tell that you can be helped for sure. If you getting orgasam with vibrator, it is sure that you can have same during intercourse. There may be chance of some problem in procedure of intercourse by you. First of all your husband should be treated for premature ejaculation by medicines and other counselling and behaviour therapy like stop and squeez and master and jhonson. For all above options you should consult a psychiatrist who is doing sexologist practice or some qualified sexologist. Plese remember for any sexual problem couple therapy needed as it is act of two. So without waitng go ahead, result will be there. If still any query , you can ask me.