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Why Am I Having Delayed Urination After Anal Play With Saliva As Lube?

Hi 4 days ago i engaged into anal play and after that i couldn t pee properly i used my saliva as lube, then came twice, i was also dehydrated.. for the first day i had to force my pee because I couldn t pee normally, on second day, it was still a problem, on third i was able to pee naturally but had to wait for few seconds then fourth which is yesterday i was able to pee but still need to wait and i had to sit on the floor with my feet like a frog, i tried everything, heat compress, drink water staying hydrated, walking, no blood coming out, no pain too, my pee is white
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Hello,

Sometimes after anal stimulation, muscles around the bladder/urethra stay tight, making it harder to “let go” when you want to pee. If you were not gentle with yourself, then friction due to prolonged action can cause swelling around the prostate or urethra, which can temporarily block urine flow.

Keep yourself well hydrated, as clear urine is a good sign. Just relax; do not worry. Avoid further anal play or ejaculation until symptoms fully resolve. Use sterile, water-based lube in the future. You can take acetaminophen, one stat after food, to help reduce any swelling or inflammation.

However, if your symptoms persist, then you are advised to get clinically examined by a urologist and get urinalysis (R/E and C/S) done to detect UTI, E. coli, etc. If you experience severe pain or an inability to pass urine at all (urinary retention), get fever & chills, and see blood in urine, then you are advised to urgently visit the ER.

Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further.

Regards,
Dr. Nupur K., General & Family Physician
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Why Am I Having Delayed Urination After Anal Play With Saliva As Lube?

Hello, Sometimes after anal stimulation, muscles around the bladder/urethra stay tight, making it harder to “let go” when you want to pee. If you were not gentle with yourself, then friction due to prolonged action can cause swelling around the prostate or urethra, which can temporarily block urine flow. Keep yourself well hydrated, as clear urine is a good sign. Just relax; do not worry. Avoid further anal play or ejaculation until symptoms fully resolve. Use sterile, water-based lube in the future. You can take acetaminophen, one stat after food, to help reduce any swelling or inflammation. However, if your symptoms persist, then you are advised to get clinically examined by a urologist and get urinalysis (R/E and C/S) done to detect UTI, E. coli, etc. If you experience severe pain or an inability to pass urine at all (urinary retention), get fever & chills, and see blood in urine, then you are advised to urgently visit the ER. Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. Nupur K., General & Family Physician