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Hi.last night i tried 2 have a sex with my bf, it was painful,i cried each time he wanted to insert his p**,and i deny him and cried.he tried it with his 3fingers,it was painful too...but his p** couldnt insert as much as a little finger...there was no blood,but pain.lastnight after that,i looked my hymen it was like before, but today its not.it means its broken?
If it is your first experince of sex , it is naturally painful. In virgin woman if hymen is intact(if not broken by chance in sports or like activity), first intercourse when p** enters in to vagina there is small lumen as hymen covers it.During insertion of p** hymen brakes and causes pain.It is not necessary that bleeding has to be there.in many girls it is not so.Considering your history(he was able to insert 3 fingers) hymen is broken.
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Why Is Sex So Painful?
If it is your first experince of sex , it is naturally painful. In virgin woman if hymen is intact(if not broken by chance in sports or like activity), first intercourse when p** enters in to vagina there is small lumen as hymen covers it.During insertion of p** hymen brakes and causes pain.It is not necessary that bleeding has to be there.in many girls it is not so.Considering your history(he was able to insert 3 fingers) hymen is broken.