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I Am 12 Year Old And Still A Virgin Is That Bad?

every single one of my friends is a non virgin. and they make fun of me and these guys keep trying to get me to do it with them...
Mon, 1 Aug 2011
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's  Response

my dude there lying to you i hope you know that. they just trying to make themself look cool. but dont worry your fine..

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soomromails's  Response
not at all
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Anonymous's  Response
Girl, you shouldn't feel bad at all for being a virgin! You should be proud! 12 is way too young to be getting involved with sex. Sex makes everything so complicated. Enjoy your childhood, and just be a kid! I was 20 when I lost my virginity and I STILL wasn't ready. Plus, it was horrible because the guy I lost it to was a total jerk and took advantage of me even though I told him I wasn't ready. I'm 23 now, and I'm still not over it. It messes with your emotions if you loose it before you're ready. Especially if you loose it to someone who doesn't truly care about you.
Homeopath Dr. Shailesh Gupta's  Response
hey this just a starting age to know about sex and all these things......like what is the right or wrong,,,, but by the my suggestion it is not a safe time for you to get involve in sexual intercourse,,, it is first experience of life that a girl enter the second stage of life i.e. she enter into young age.........this time you have to know or take proper knowledge through your parents spp. mother or female companion,,,,

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Anonymous's  Response
You know being virgin protects you from many diseases. Stay virgin as long as you can. Also for your future never have sex with more than 1.
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njabulomjadu's  Response
yr friends are stupid don't listen to them they wont even finish school bcause they started with something they should have ended up with. just wait until you are ready to do sex, just stay with your virgity
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fancychick07's  Response
No you have nothing to be ashamed of, I am 21 years old and still a virgin, I love it, and as you get old you'll find out more people respect you for waiting, there are too many std's and risk to sex, you have to wait until your ready, all of my friends are sexually active or have been, they all are proud of me for waiting, and the one thing I hear the most is "I wish I would have waited" you'll be happy that you waited, and didn't do what your friends were doing, most of my friends have a baby, or at one point had an std. It's not worth it if your not ready for a baby, and sex definitely isn't worth an std. Your smart keep waiting until the time is right!
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its not a bad thing at all. I lost it at 16 and im almost 21 and think i could be pregnant Im not ready and am scared,I wish i was still a virgin, I wasnt ready at 16 I did it just to say I had. You have more things to worry abt than having sex rite now. Those girls cant honestly say they are your true friends if they were they wouldnt harass you abt bein a virgin

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Anonymous's  Response
12 years old? You're still a baby! No need whatsoever to have sex that young. Your body is not done growing yet, chances are you are not even done with puberty. Take it from me- kids are confused and misinformed, and will try to make you that way too. You are not physically or mentally prepared for the consequences of sex. Pregnancy, STDs, feelings of inadequacy when you want a relationship and all the other person wants is sex.. don't risk it. Honestly, having sex so early is probably something you'll regret. Kids just seem to do it because they are bored.. find something else to do.
Also, don't be so worried about what other people think. You'll respect yourself more if you do what you want to do and not what other people tell you is the cool thing to do. This applies to everything, not just sex. If you have reservations about certain things, don't do it. I was made fun of in high school because I dressed differently and didn't drink or do drugs like the other kids. But looking back on it, I'm glad I did things my way because I didn't get arrested for underage drinking or mess my brain up with drugs or get pregnant as a teenager. Just take care of yourself and don't cave under the pressure.
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geogeomashi's  Response
do not have sex im a 13 yrs old boy trust me this is why i try not to hang around other even my dad who are trying to pressure me but i will not fall into temptation and i hope you wont either
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geogeomashi's  Response
do have sex im a 13 yrs old boy trust me this is why i try not to hang around other even my dad who are trying to pressure me but i will not fall into temptation and i hope you wont either
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Anonymous's  Response

You being a virgin is not a bad thing at all! You have your whole life ahead of you for that. Trust me you'll want to wait for that right person.

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Phillip's  Response

Are you kidding me!?!?! of course not. belive me if there was a chance to loose my virginity i would probably wouldnt say no, but dont on purposely loose your virginity becuase your friends have. they lost their virginity around 12? wow that is like middleschool. mpoint im trying to make is that im going through the same thing you are becuase all my friends have done it, but belive me if theres any comment about virginity, its either a joke or telling me to hold onto it becuase their experience was shitty becuase they were young. so dont care what people talk about you about still having it, call ur friends sluts becuase u shouldnt even be dating at age, your still preteens. reply back to me if you want to talk about it more

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taylor's  Response

no thats not bad at all. your way to young, your friends are just whores. trust me. im 17 and waited till i dated someone for over a year before we did. -then you know they really love you instead of just trying to get with you. plus when your older and you tell guys youve been with alot of guys, its not attractive. i know.

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Chelsea's  Response

Oh my gosh! 12! That is super young to be having sex. You should not feel bad you haven't had sex. Don't ever feel like you have to have sex if you don't want to.

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Anonymous's  Response

Having sex at 12 is to young. I'm almost 22 and I have yet to have sex. When I was in high school there were a handful of girls who either were pregnant or who had already had kids. In middle school there were already 2 girls that I knew of that had an abortion because they were to young and didn't take in to acount the results of having sex. All of these girls were people that I knew and all of them wished that they would have waited, while almost all of the girls kept their kids, they still agree that it would have been better to wait. Besides satistics show that while your friends might be saying they are having sex, they are more then likely lying to you. They also might just be talking about oral sex and not sex. Regardless, 12 is way to young! After all your body isn't full matured at that age

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Anonymous's  Response

Well I must of been completely ABNORMAL. Because I was 28 when I lost my virginity. Reason: I had to be in love before I wanted to make love with somebody. Simple & Plain

But did plenty of making out, but certainly not at 12.

14 maybe but not 12. Hey kid enjoy your youth for God's sake. I wish I had mine again. There will be plenty of time for all that when older. Guys favorite excuse is you must be a lesbian if you don't want to. Funny, maybe that's why I was always attracted to older men past 21. It takes a long long time for some BOYS to grow up. And some in their 50s still haven't. No way I was ready for sex at your age or for that matter through teens. I had crushes, but that's all a crush is. It is not LOVE.

 

Hang with your friends and enjoy being 12. Save the sex down the road. And somebody you loves you as much as you love them. Or tell them to take a hike.

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Anonymous's  Response

you need to wry about your future get an education thats whats important so when u do have sex u dont have to wry about not bien able to take care of   a child and im only 16 and im waiting tell im atleast 18 where my body is fit to have sex and im also i hope i can make it till marraige and after college


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