Question : Hello
I live in Egypt if that matters for your diagnosis .   I am also a software programmer ,  i do not work in the medical field . 
So the classic story .  
On 1 XXXXXXX 2013 i had sex with a girl ( this is the first time i had sex )  .She is not a sex worker but you can say she plays around a lot . 
 It was protected but we had a sort of unprotected contact  plus oral sex . I also took Viagra . 
On the second day my throat felt very sore . I was stressed about this issue. I also got from her a UTI  and went to see a doctor .  I took antibiotics and the UTI was clear .
During the UTI  i did not see pus  yellow or green , just clear discharge some times after urination . 
I did urine analysis after that and also a urine culture and every thing seemed perfect in both  . Even before the antibiotics the WBC in urine seemed a bit  elevated , that doctor did not want to give me antibiotics but i insisted on taking them   . I took an injection and 2 pills .     
The doctor told me i have 
prostatitis though cause i had waist pain and 
testicle pain that persisted until now  . 
My 
sore throat never went away , so i visited ENT .  
The ENT told me your throat is perfect i dont see any problems but your 
acid reflux is bad . your nose is also affected by the acid , ( he used some endoscope to check my throat and nose )  
About 4 weeks later i notice my tonsilar lymph nodes swollen . 
At that point i was so scared of HIV  .  I never got fever , rash , sweats , cough  ,  running nose , or flu like symptoms ( classic HIV i assume )  ,  just the lymph nodes .I dont get flu since years thanks to the 
vaccination . 
 I was scared that i got a strain of HIV that did not show the normal HIV symptoms but enlarged my lymph nodes . 
I can feel something in my neck  when i look to the right or left  but no one can see it  . I can feel it with my finger when  i look to the right or left .  Also small one on the side of my neck maybe lentil sized  . but the tonsilar ones are kinda big , but not seen at all .   
I went  to see another ENT and he said do not worry about the lymph nodes . He searched with his hands and said i cannot find them even the one on the side of my neck . 
He also checked my throat and told me it seems perfect , he said i will not prescribe any medicine to you cause you do not suffer from any thing except acid reflux . 
I went back to my 
urologist , cause of the prostatitis issues  , he didnt want to do further tests , but i insisted .  I did semen culture and the WBC was very high .  1.2 million  . I went back to him and he put me on Cypro for 1 month . I dont see much improvment with that antibiotic , still 
pain in my groin area and the lymph in my groin is felt .  I can feel them . 
I also wonder why i never got fever for the 
prostate infection ?  My temp is 36.5 which is way below normal throughout this entire time .  I measure my temp   maybe 5 times daily  . 
I was stressed about  HIV and thought about it a lot . I hate to stress about something so i decided to be sure i dont have HIV to put my mind to rest . 
I waited 4 month and 20 days and did the following tests . Did the test on  20 October for 
Hep  B 
Hep  C 
HIV  
All came negative .   
This put my mind at ease a lot , cause those diseases are the big deal as far as i know . I thought if i dont have one of those then i am ok  ,  any thing else is curable . 
Is the 4 month 20 days period good to be sure 100% that i didnt catch HIV ? 
I heard some people say 3 month and some say 4 weeks and some say  6 months . 
Knowing that i did not get any rash in my body or genitals , i assume i dont have syphilis or HSV .
I am right in this ?  
Can someone have syphillis  but not show the classic rash on the phase 1 and 2 of the disease ?  
 
Is it possible that i have some other STD like chlamydia in my throat that causes the lymph nodes to enlarge ? But is it possible that the ENT cannot see a chlamydia 
throat infection ?  Do you suggest i do chlamydia or gnorhea 
throat culture ?  
Is it possible that i have another STD that is in the blood only  but not showing any symptoms except the lymph  nodes in the neck  ? 
Could the bacteria in the prostate be wondering in the blood or something and proceeding towards a Sepsis and that causes the lymph in my neck  ? 
I also want to know what are the risks of prostatitis since i know i have this now ? Can this hurt my body in some other way  or it will be always contained in the prostate ? Can there be complications from it ?  
Can the infection in the prostate cause lymph nodes in other places of the body to enlarge ? 
What are other STDS out there that could enlarge my neck lymph nodes ? OR the lymph nodes are not related to an STD at all and its all about the 
throat inflammation from Acid , which  i can feel every day in the morning .  I wake up with burning feeling in my throat that goes away after i drink and so  .
Do you think i might have Mono , that did not show flu symptoms but enlarged my lymph nodes? 
Also can a mono infection cause my lymph nodes to remain swollen like this for several months while not showing flu like symptoms ?  
Another thing worth mentioning i get tingling feelings near my colar bone , and pins and needles in my neck  , behind the ears , back of the neck , front of the neck , the feeling of insects walking on my neck ( but without the insects )  . Is there any STD that can cause such symptoms ?  I know i am straining my muscles from the anxiety a lot  . I took my anxiety to a new level really during the last few months  . 
I will never have sex again and i wont get married even . Peace of mind is a great thing . 
 
I am sorry  i am flooding you with questions but really i am stressed about having something that no one can find .   
I also want to let you that i was being treated from anxiety , my condition was up and down last years .
I been on seroxat for sometime , but i read that is a bad medicine and decided to stop it . I went through hell to clear it from my body , i do not want to tell you this long story .   
My heart the left shoulder always hurt and i checked for all heart issues and they found nothing . 
I am also talking to another doctor on your site that might help me find another drug to help with the anxiety  issues , maybe long term 
anti depressant or something  . 
Thank you for reading all this , i know it sounds complicated  , but this is what happened .