Suggest Ways To Deal With A Person With Unappreciative Impertinent Nature

Posted on Mon, 25 Jan 2016

Question: hello doctor
I am XXXX working for deloitte XXXXXXX I am very very emotional guy taking all the things emotional. trying to be rude but not at all possible.

now I am little bit confused about one case. one of my junior who is working under me is rude with me always. the reason is my supervised told me to train him all my activity and after once he get training they are moving me to other project. I trained him all the thing whatever I know and during that time ibsay 1 year he is very friendly with me. always that time I used to tell him I believe you and I hope your are frd not just for learning but afterwards as well.but everything changed once I transition d my work to him. he started speaking me ruddy and makes my cry a lot. he know 's I attached to him so he is behaving that is what I am thinking. until now after transition he is always joking at me and saying rash word. I go inside and cry. now I am not able to tolerate this. still emotion is there against him please please help me how to control out of this setuation. is there any medicine I can take to copleas help me how to come out and please give me any tablet which ca help.me for this please. my number is 0000 please call me or give councill8ng how to come out from this setuation
because going forward I have to work with him

Answered by Dr. Shubham Mehta (2 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Ignore him, engage in your work.

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXX.
Welcome here.
I can understand your concerns.

See this is the professional world and not all the guys are same. I mean there are good people, bad people, selfish people helpful people etc.

I think it's a bit selfish on your junior's part that he is behaving rude with you. He should have respected you and be thankful that you taught him about business.

But, anyhow, you should not expect much from people. The more you expect, the more your are hurt. When he does not care for you, you should also ignore him.
Take this experience as a message for your future.

Try to get engrossed in your work.
Make him feel that you are unhappy with him.
Avoid talking to him
Distract yourself when you feel bad about this.

If possible, you can once try to talk to him about this, discuss the issues and reason for his rudeness. If you both work out on this, then its fine. Otherwise, ignoring him is the best policy.

Hope this helps.
Thanks.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar