Hello doc,
im so scared of HIV and its affecting my life now.
i used to have multiple sexpartners thru the years but never did bareback sex. June last year i tested negative in HIV 1 and 2.
and then last december to early january i had sever sore throat. after antibiotic medication it stopped but my left tonsil remained enlarged. i didnt get much fever. just mild one which only lasted a day or two.
and then later January, i had sex ( jan 25th, after my sore throat was gone). we didnt know that the condom broke so i panicked and told him we should both get tested immediately. we got tested on the same day, both negative.
now, its February 25th. Last week my tonsillitis returned and the redness stopped after a week of clindamycin. But the left tonsil is still enlarged ( it shrunk a bit). But I also developed some sores now on my gums ( it could be HIV or maybe because of too much antibiotics I have used for the month?)
it could be lymphoma or HIV im so scared…but if it has to be any of the 2 I hope its lymphoma, the lesser of the 2 evils.
My questions:
1) will it be possible that any 1 of us was on window stage that’s why we tested negative? Could we possibly transmit/get hiv if we both tested negative on the same day we had sex?
2) I didn’t have any flu like symptoms. No other symptoms actually. My blood tests shows normal blood counts, even the peripheral blood tests shows every thing is normal. I have slight elevation of neutrophil, 10.8 versus the normal 10.
3) Im planning to get tested again for hiv next week. If I still get negative, would that be concslusive that im free of HIV? Or maybe the biopsy of my tonsil would still show the real status?
Thank you and more power!