Have Urinary Incontinence. History Of Coccyx Injury. Urine Exam Shows Red Blood Cells. What To Do?

Hi, I am 35, have problem of urinary incontinence. I am married for last 2.8 years with no conception history. I had an injury on my coccyx region (slipped from stairs) 2.5years ago, after few months of this injury i got this problem of UI, always have a feeling of little wetness of pelvic organs, no problem of frequent urination, or urine leaking cuz of any pressures, sneezing, coughing. sometimes i have it with my movements during my daily prayers. I am using sanitary napkins for this problem and often get rashes. my tests of urine examination, urine culture and kidney ultrasound are perfect except there were 5 red bloodcells in urine examination report. I am sick of this problem please help me by guiding what should i do. i have also taken medicine tab. genurine and 2,3 other tablets too (on prescription of diff. doctors) but except their serious side effects i got no benefit out of those treatments. Please help me in this regard. It would be great if some urologist(s) answer my query.