How To Ascertain That I Am Still A Virgin?

I have a sexual problem...My boyfriend said that he wanted to give me 5 licks on my lady area just to make me feel good. I had never done anything like that before. But as soon as I took my pants and underwear off, He pushed me on the bed and started to grind his penis against my vaginal opening.I pleaded with him to stop but he didn't. He tried to put his penis in and only got the tip in (2 inches at the most) because I struggled and screamed. Virginity is vital to my culture. My hymen is still intact, and we didn't really have what I consider to be sex. He mostly just grinded his penis against my vaginal opening. Am I still a virgin? I broke up with the guy immeadiately. I felt so hurt and betrayed at what he did. Now I feel horrible and I have been crying myself to sleep every night. Please let me know if I am still a virgin. Will I have to tell my future fiance about this?

I hated everything that he was doing. The only reason that I let him grind on me was because he told me if I didn't stop "tripping" that he would ram his penis in me and "tear my p^%&y up."