I am a 63 yr young woman, who has NOT gone for 12 consecutive months without a, perfectly normal, period. I have never had an abnormal pap smear or pelvic, and, to satisfy one Ob/Gyn, I even had a sonogram. I live in Oregon, though I lived most of my life in CA. I NEVER had any problem getting birth control, or, HRT, in Ca., but, here, the doctors are acting like I'm asking for heroine. I have zero risk factors for female cancer. The most recent Ob/Gyn told me that menopause and post menopause are the same thing! She said if she prescribed me hormones, and, I got cancer, I could sue her. I told her that was ridiculous, and, that I would sign a release, but, she was just too paranoid. I had an Rx for Activella, but, had to take twice the dose, to prevent getting a period when my daughter was on hers. What should I do, I can't stand these hotflashes?