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Suggest Remedy For Excessive Sexual Drive
I am a Muslim and have been recently married to a very orthodox Muslim village girl aged 28 and facing lots of shocking behaviour from her with regard to her passion for sex. She has been brought up in a very traditional Islamic culture and throughout her unmarried life she was strictly kept isolated from the shadow of boys as her family members were afraid that she could fall victim of eve-teasing. Barring close male family members throughout her life she never interacted with anyone of opposite sex including cousins.
Her unbelievable sexual behaviour shocked me when I spoke to her over phone before marriage. Her character is beyond any doubt as she belongs to a very respectable family known for ethics. Honestly speaking during telephonic talk she initiated the topic of sex with me. She asked me how frequently and how long you can have intercourse with me, if you would not do intercourse with me on the second day of marriage I would kill you, I would put my hand inside your panty, would you like to know the size of my breast and colour of my thigh, I get my orgasm after watching romantic movie. Before marriage we never met each other but we talked over phone for a month and throughout the month she spoke only about sex. This not the end of story. After marriage she started showing mad passion for sex everyday and without any shame she undresses her as if we have been old mates. She behaves like a western girl and keeps on touching, kissing and playing with my penis anytime without my consent. If I don’t have sex with her she openly says that I miss your penis every night. Trust me, I never asked her to touch and kiss my penis. After smooching her she says that she gets out of control and need immediate sex. When I strictly said to her that her behaviour is very upsetting and like western girl then she argues with me that she her desire for sex is normal. How could a village Muslim girl can behave like a western girl is something has disturbed me a lot and I am afraid that being not sexually satisfied one day there can be dire consequences. Please help me to find solution of this problem.
Her unbelievable sexual behaviour shocked me when I spoke to her over phone before marriage. Her character is beyond any doubt as she belongs to a very respectable family known for ethics. Honestly speaking during telephonic talk she initiated the topic of sex with me. She asked me how frequently and how long you can have intercourse with me, if you would not do intercourse with me on the second day of marriage I would kill you, I would put my hand inside your panty, would you like to know the size of my breast and colour of my thigh, I get my orgasm after watching romantic movie. Before marriage we never met each other but we talked over phone for a month and throughout the month she spoke only about sex. This not the end of story. After marriage she started showing mad passion for sex everyday and without any shame she undresses her as if we have been old mates. She behaves like a western girl and keeps on touching, kissing and playing with my penis anytime without my consent. If I don’t have sex with her she openly says that I miss your penis every night. Trust me, I never asked her to touch and kiss my penis. After smooching her she says that she gets out of control and need immediate sex. When I strictly said to her that her behaviour is very upsetting and like western girl then she argues with me that she her desire for sex is normal. How could a village Muslim girl can behave like a western girl is something has disturbed me a lot and I am afraid that being not sexually satisfied one day there can be dire consequences. Please help me to find solution of this problem.
Wed, 25 Jun 2014
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Desire for sex is a normal human instinct . If it does not breach the norms of society, it is normal. I think there is nothing wrong with your wife. Restrictive upbringing could be the cause for her behavior. Instead of scolding and criticising , you try to have and enjoy sex. For a certain period after marriage, derive is very high in most individuals which tend to go down slowly because of adaptation and tolerance. you need to learn to give her pleasure in different ways. it is a truth- you tend to run after forbidden things but tend to lose interest slowly as they become available.
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Desire for sex is a normal human instinct . If it does not breach the norms of society, it is normal. I think there is nothing wrong with your wife. Restrictive upbringing could be the cause for her behavior. Instead of scolding and criticising , you try to have and enjoy sex. For a certain period after marriage, derive is very high in most individuals which tend to go down slowly because of adaptation and tolerance. you need to learn to give her pleasure in different ways. it is a truth- you tend to run after forbidden things but tend to lose interest slowly as they become available.
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
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