What Does Ulcers In Tongue & Vagina With Blisters Suggest?

Hello. I have had tongue ulcers for over 1 year and 8 months now. They are continuous and located on the edges of my tongue. They range from pin prick size to dime size. The big ones leave deep holes in my tongue once they heal. I also get vaginal ulcers to the point they scarred the area and have eaten away my urethra. My eyes swell and get bloody sometimes. And about 1 year after those symptoms appeared I started to get large painful bumps under my skin that created bruises. These bruise bumps leave a divot after they heal. At the same time as this I started to get blister sores almost pimple like on my skin to the point that if they gather in patches the skin is raw to and purple red. These leave permanent purple red marks when healed. My elbows also started the last 4 months to get hot and hurt a lot. All of these symptoms get worse in the cold months. Odd but I have not actually gotten a cold or flue since this began. I have never been sexually active. Please help me figure out what I have.